Don't Tell Me - Avril Lavigne

RULES:

1. Put your MP3 player, iTunes, Windows Media Player, etc. on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS.
4. Tag at least 10 friends (make me #11 so I can see your results).
5. Everyone tagged has to do the same thing.
6. Have Fun!


IF SOMEONE SAYS 'ARE YOU OKAY' YOU SAY?
A Night to Remember - HSM3

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF?
All The Small Things - Blink 182


WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
America's Suiteheart - Fall Out Boys


HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Bad Day - Daniel Powter

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE?
Better in Time - Leona Lewis

WHAT'S YOUR MOTTO?
Big Girls Don't Cry (Remix) - Fergie ft. Sean Kingston [??]


WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Big City Dreams - Nevershoutnever


WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
Something - Jim Sturgess [vague...]


WHAT IS 2 + 2?
Baby Love - Nicole Scherzinger

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
Free - Boys Like Girls

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
I Told You So - Boy Like Girls

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Simple and Clean - Utada Hikaru


WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
It's Over - Jesse McCartney [o.O"]

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
天亮了 - S.H.E

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
Is It You - Cassie

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
爱的得体 - Lee Hom


WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST FEAR?
Learning To Fall - Boys Like Girls

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Dirty Little Secrets - The All-American Rejects [ROFL]

WHAT DO YOU WANT RIGHT NOW?
The Best You Never Had - Leona Lewis

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
Wake Me Up When September Ends - Green Day

WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS AS?
Don't Tell Me - Avril Lavigne



Again, I refuse to tag anyone.. Do it if you want to.

Tataz~

Life is so Fragile...

Life..it's like what everyone refers to--a thin piece of glass. It is so fragile that it might break even with the slightest touch. Perfect and pretty it might looked like, however considering how fragile it is, those who are so reluctant to treasure it will end up losing this precious gift.

Many has neglected the true value of life, including myself as well. Our lifetime is like a timed bomb which you don't even know when will it explode. Let it be 10 years, 20 years, 100 years or even 1 day later, you will never get noticed earlier when is your doomsday. Everyone has their own fated longevity, some may be ill-fated as accidents, sickness and crimes are all around us. However, human tend to waste 80% of their lifetime doing meaningless things. Some even wasted their remaining time by committing suicide. Can you tell that they treasure their lives??

We should all realise that there is an after life that will be judged by the almighty. Even if you don't realise this fact, live your life for the people and keep a happy thought of you in the people who will still be alive when you unexpectedly die. Exclude the lusts in life and plant good will in your actions. It should be the thought that monopolizes your life's actions.Otherwise, destruction in one's life is vital.

We should all quit wasting our lifetime
- doing stuffs that will only upset the others and OURSELVES
- daydreaming, sit and do NOTHING
- liking someone who doesn't like you at all
- having arguments which shouldn't even existed
- plot on stupid plans just to get rid of your enemy
- suicide
- others YOU KNOW BETTER
- fearing death



I agree with Epicurus Philosophy of Death, he says...
The fear of death is indeed undesired and illogical. Death is a certainty but fearing it is optional. Death can be considered at par with birth. It is an absolute and there will never be any exceptions. One should not waste precious moments of their life dreading death, but realizing that life is not limitless and we must make the most of it while we our alive. We can only make a difference in our life time and not after it. All that we intend to accomplish can be achieved when we are alive. Hence fearing death is not the answer and we should have anything to do with it in our life.



I know I have been writing a lot about life recently.. but this post is specially for a committed former member of VIAVB and a good friend who had just passed away today - Always remembered and be part of my memory, dear friend Lai Yun Chi.

She finally succumb to cancer this afternoon..and all the while I didn't know that she was in such serious condition until I received a message about her death today... I just can't explain how fragile a life can be....

My deepest condolence to her.. May she rest in peace. Sorry to hear such unfortunate news..

Being COOL

The Extremely COOL DOG

Being tagged as a Cool person, normally refers to someone who keeps his mouth shut most of the time and someone you don't wanna mess with.

Ask Andy Warhol, or someone like Miles Davis - who made great music but knew how to play his image : to be cool.


What is so good about being cool you ask? There is always people around us asking : “I've been working hard - why isn't it paying off?”

The truth is, we should always remind ourselves that - Life is like high school.

When you're in high school, it's ALL about popularity, clicks, being cool, what you wear, what parties you're at, etc.


When you go to college, the focus shifts to academic achievement.


Many people get out of college thinking the world will be like that. “The harder you work, the more you will be rewarded.” But it's not.


Life is like high school. It's all about who you know, how socially charming you are, what scene you're in, what you wear, what parties you're at, flirting, and being cool.

Agree or not for what I said, it's all up to you to decide. All your leaps and bounds are all because of "someone you know". So having mass network of good friends who are able to help you out are essential to be a ladder to keep you at the top, I mean mutualism friendship, especially in careers, and not some suck-up relationships.


Being cool is just one way people in the current days gain popularity, apparently so an undeniable fact. But there is also a portion of them who HATES people being cool.

Imagine in High School times, is it true that cool guys normally gains more popularity? Figure out yourself.

Ok, Here comes the funny part, on HOW TO BE COOL =P

LMAO!!!

Steps:

1. Act like you do not care what others think of you. We will always, on some level, be concerned with others' opinions of ourselves, but realize that ultimately, you will never be able to please everyone, so why bother trying? People have millions of ways to get under your skin. Learn to spot them and become immune. Be happy and have fun.
2. Be aware of how others will perceive you. This might seem to contradict the previous step, but there's a difference in letting people's judgments affect your self esteem, and being aware of how you come off to others. What you are really doing is being aware of how you look from another's perspective. In terms of physical appearance, beware of food getting stuck in your teeth, bad breath, body odor, toilet paper stuck to your shoe, etc. In terms of composure, try not to stare too much (it makes people uncomfortable), stand/sit up straight (it makes you look and feel more confident), smile generously, be polite and considerate, etc.
3. Present yourself in a positive way. Walk with good posture and look people in the eye. If you slump or stare at your feet, people won't respect you. You have to look and feel confident in order to receive the respect you need.
4. Find real friends. For example, if people don't hang out with you because you don't wear designer clothes, they are not real friends. Instead, find friends that see you for who you are. If the people standing in front of you can't see you for you, then how can they be your friend?
5. Don't be afraid to be different, whether that means standing up for yourself, defending someone else, or taking interest in something that no one else does, like playing an instrument or dancing when no one else will. The coolest people are the ones who occasionally break against the tide and make people question the status quo.
6. Speak up. Observe people who are "cool"--they usually speak confidently and clearly, at a good pace.
7. Learn how to laugh at yourself.
8. Write a list of all of the goals you are aiming for.
   
9. Take a deep breath. Being cool is all about being relaxed and comfortable in any circumstance. Don't lose your cool.
10. Be friendly, but not excessively eager.
    
11. Use appropriate language. Many people think it makes them cool when they cuss, but all it's really doing is showing that you're trying to be cool.
12. Refrain from using too many colloquialisms.

Above all, STAY HUMBLE k... LOL!! Vanity isn't Cool...



Still, there are other weird ways people consider them cool (at least I think so)

1st of all..

Smoking ==

2nd..

Tatoos..still ok for me..

3rd..

Cool BOXERS!!

4th..

piercings..even worse when at some 'weird' parts xD

5th...what else? PUNKS

Arrested? rofl..





Instead...I like these coolness better =)

Freaking COOL XD


Becoming a cool person isn't asking you to be all cold..you can always have a warm side!!

Being cool isn't all bad... so cheers!!! haha...

Half Angel, Half Devil

Took A Test to test my -EvilNess

That's my result
I AM TWISTED. LOL!!

Anyway, that's a twisted test..got funny answers in them

So, which side do I belong to??

I always wanted to be angel, But still can't deny the fact that I have an evil side of mine too

I can be angel sometimes, and evil in a very horrifying way
Examples?? It's not good to say it out here


So, I can be a good friend or a worst enemy.
It all depends =X

What Goes Around, Comes Back Around

Life is like a winding road
Filled with all mysteries
Let it be happiness, surprises, excitement
or
Sorrows, pain, nightmare

The road we set foot on
Like the waves it has its ups and downs
Like a roller coaster it has its twists and turns
Life is like a sport it just depends on what we play
Like a game of poker it just depends on what we are dealt

Sometimes you like it
Sometimes you don't

However, it's all fated like how it would be
All we could pray for
is may She guide all of us to bliss
May Her gift of life for us everlasting


Dreams, Hopes, Glamor..
Joyful times, Disappointing times
With a glimpse of an eye
It all will be over
That is how the world goes

Even when we all stop doing anything right now,
The world will continue moving along it's axis
Every second we waste, will tax us back
Everything we do, will come back to us

May it be good deed, or evil doings
It will come back to us, sooner or later
Like how the saying goes
"What goes around, comes around"

You might think this is nonsense,
trust me,
everything revolves around us


Appreciate everything you have
Before it turn dust
Not all Love can reciprocate
Not all Human can be rich
Not all Beings can live long
So just be happy with what you currently posses





Don't ask how long the road is
Don't ask when will we reach our final destination
Don't ask God WHY
Don't ask Me HOW
Just ask yourself how you gonna appreciate every second
of this journey

Stay strong, Stay tough
Don't give up

Shaun will move along =)

-Ys-

Worst Insomnia Ever

Last night marks my worst insomnia in history... For some reasons, I can't sleep at all the whole night till now-morning.

Mum 'woke' me up (while I am still awake) just now and now I am going out for Breakfast..
fcuk!! I didn't get to sleep at all.. and will be staying awake this whole day cause relatives from north is here in KL today, have to entertain them.

Adios mate.. time for breakfast after a sleepless nite.

Never shed tears

A simple answer that I have been longing for... an answer that I have been waiting for so long finally replied. Weird, although I have already been expecting this from the very beginning, I somehow still feel the pain.. I always thought that if I received this very answer early I will be relieved but now I rather I never get the reply at all.

It's all too late now, so it's finally over? I wasn't good enough still. I don't even really know who I lose to, LOL!! Is the answer telling me that I have actually wasted 3 years of my lifetime?? Foolish and naive guy I am.. yet rules are rules, I accept my defeat. Maybe it's already a mistake that I make the first move.

How will I make up the lost time.. tell me how...

Shaun is not a person who is going to give up so easily.. is it possible that I would not make a comeback? How long can I stand this... Fine, I shall try to avoid as much as I can from now on, and continue on my long-paused plan--to forget

Though, I shall try not shed any tears no matter how much pain I endured after this day.

Sorry I can't keep my promise this time. I have wasted too much time =/
This is the first and the last time I will be such a fool.

Silence

Too much unwanted noice as dawn draws near will only bring forward frusts and hassles to one weak mind till unscrupulous utterance begins to burst out from an introversive individual.

The moment of silence... a moment of meditation to calm down and flashbacks my own demeanor from the day I first sight the pretty sky. Thinking back, how foolish and immature I am back then, but all seems to be a joke to laugh at. I just can't help to put a on a small smile on my silly face.

The Present, a time to cherish before the day of eternal silence comes by. A time to treasure as many mysteries and surprises were to be unboxed in the remaining chapters in life.

The Past, a nostalgic time to be kept in our memories until the day we all get so old till we can't even remember our own name. A time to be shared with our loved ones, our children during the later phase.

Silence, a time to be in deep thoughts on all surreal facts. A time to rejoice the moment of solitary or whine out all tearful events without others knowledge. Keeping all our feelings deep inside and debate with only one mind to find the answer which will lead us to the light in the middle of pure darkness.

The endeavors of searching for truth in deep silence without influence of the outside world could be a better bridge to light.


Silence too, may be macabre at times when in vain. After all, a person who lies to is actually in vain...and lonely. Silence too, may also the source of great strength and can also be the most powerful scream.

The hectic life in city, the messy mind of mine really needs silence during this moment of recession. Too many unsolved questions remains mystery and unanswered. So, enjoy the silence for now..